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5 Signs To Tell If Your Wife Still Loves You

Published

3 years ago

October 9, 2023

How do you know if your wife is still IN love with you? I’m not exaggerating when I say 100% of the men I’ve worked with have explained that when their wives told them that she was leaving, they all said the same thing: ”I love you, but I’m not in love with you.”

If you can understand and decode your wife’s actual love language — and I’m not talking about that love language — by understanding these five signs, she will do anything for you. You’ll be her savior, her only man, and she’ll never want to leave because of how you make her feel.

If you fail to completely miss the mark and not make her consistently fall in love with you by doing these things, she will leave you for another guy. That’s the harsh truth.

Sign #1

That leads us to the first sign that a woman is in love with you: she would do anything for him. You have to recognize that when a woman is in love with you, she’s going above and beyond just to see you. She’s exerting a lot of energy and time to see you. If a girl is no longer showing interest or she’s no longer in love with you, she’ll make excuses not to see you. I used to teach dating to men, and a lot of times, guys would say,

“She keeps on making excuses. I guess I’ll just hit her up until she’s finding time to hang out with me.”

If she wants to see you, you’ll be a priority in her schedule. Even if it isn’t necessarily a “date” context, just seeing you in a neutral setting would be enough for her. When she loves you, she should have a deep craving to be with you regardless of what situation you see her in.

Sign #2

Remember when she was naggy or critical of everything you did? That is a sign she’s in love with you. Women do not share and express vulnerable emotions unless they care about that person. If she’s sharing her problems with you, it’s because she wants to work them out. She feels comfortable expressing what’s inside of her. The opposite of love isn’t hate; it’s indifference. If she’s showing these vulnerable emotions — complaining, sad, fearful, jealous, etc. — even if you don’t like it, it is still a sign that she cares enough to nag. The moment she stops showing you those emotions and shuts inward, she leaves.

Sign #3

When you’re in love with someone, you want to do everything that you can for that person to make them feel loved. Often, this comes out as vocalizing and visualizing plans. Making plans together shows that you see each other in the future. I call this third sign “Projected Future Reality.” Essentially, when a woman shows ideas of wanting to spend time with you in the future, she’s in love with you.

An example of this is a client of mine named Robert. One day, his wife “I’m no longer in love with you,” but then she started planning to go to Bermuda with him. I got a call from Robert the other day where he explained that after wanting a divorce, she designed a week-long vacation for the two of them the next day. He was confused. I told Robert that she wouldn’t make plans if she didn’t love him. A few weeks later, Robert and his wife had ripped up the divorce papers and were off to Bermuda.

Sign #4

This sign is easy to see in friendships but much harder to see in a committed romantic relationship with someone. I call it “Accepting Your Influence.” In conversation, if your wife seeks to understand your perspective on a situation and is somewhat flexible about the outcome, it’s a telltale sign that she’s in love with you. This can come in the shape of her asking questions, being curious, or reflecting on her feelings. Once you know how to look for it, it is simple to see. If she’s in love with you, she’ll have the respect to see your side and consider it.

Sign #5

This one is pretty obvious, but if she’s pursuing physical contact with you, whether that’s a hug, a touch on the arm, or something more intimate, she still feels love for you. When she’s physically flirty, it shows that she feels close enough to you emotionally and physically to touch you. This is a plain sign that she still loves you.

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How Critical-Thinking Skills Will Enable Your Kids to Battle Misinformation

Published

6 days ago

May 20, 2026

Michelle Langton

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Michael Currier of Massachusetts is an unvaccinated gastroenterologist and entrepreneur, and he’s seen misinformation firsthand. He’s long been teaching his kids how to spot misinformation, but they were naturally skeptical when they didn’t hear it from anyone but him. However, the right books taught his kids how to combat misinformation, and they will teach your kids too! If you’re wondering how to raise independent thinkers who can spot misinformation, the Tuttle Twins books are essential tools for your toolbelt.

How Critical Thinking Combats Misinformation

When kids can think critically, they become able to evaluate the credibility of sources and look for evidence, also identifying their own and others’ biases. Critical thinkers don’t just passively absorb information; they take it apart piece by piece to see what makes it “tick.”

Critical thinkers question the credentials of an author or source, alongside their motivations and whether they provide supporting evidence that goes beyond just statements that require trust. Kids who can think critically also spot confirmation bias, which is the tendency to believe something that fits in well with the thinker’s current belief system or worldview. This reduces demand for fake news that simply elicits an emotional reaction.

When your kids can think critically and independently, they will also be able to spot logical fallacies, like drawing causal conclusions from data that’s simply correlational. Critical thinkers can also tell the difference between scientific evidence and someone’s opinion.

Independent, critical thinkers don’t just read a page. They look up information from other trusted sources to verify that the original source is accurate. Critical thinking also encourages a healthy skepticism that causes independent thinkers to pause and assess emotionally charged content before they spread it around, realizing that misinformation frequently exploits outrage or fear.

Critical thinkers can also recognize propaganda tactics such as loaded language, false dilemmas, and “alternative facts.”

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Seeking Out Books that Teach Critical Thinking

At this point, parents wondering how to raise independent thinkers will want to look for books that teach critical thinking, like the Tuttle Twins series. The Tuttle Twins books explain things like misinformation, freedom of speech, and even the World Economic Forum while explaining that certain people get to decide what is and isn’t misinformation.

Books that teach critical thinking don’t just present facts. They encourage kids to analyze, evaluate, and put together arguments, frequently shining a light on logical fallacies and biases while calling for active application instead of a passive taking-in of information. Books that teach critical thinking will help you with how to raise independent thinkers by guiding you and your child through reasoned questioning and requiring evidence behind facts.

The Tuttle Twins series wraps every lesson in an engaging story that doesn’t just teach the information presented. The Tuttle Twins books also encourage all the above elements found in books that teach critical thinking. You can even enhance the critical-thinking skills embedded in all the Tuttle Twins books by pausing throughout the story and asking open-ended questions such as: What do you think the character should do next? What were some alternate solutions to the problem? What do you think could have been the consequences of those solutions?

Books that teach critical thinking like the Tuttle Twins series will go a long way toward helping you learn how to raise independent thinkers. They will also help you create special moments with your kids that they’ll remember forever! Join the growing number of parents who don’t want their kids to just be passive absorbers of information.