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5 Signs To Tell If Your Wife Still Loves You

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2 years ago

October 9, 2023

How do you know if your wife is still IN love with you? I’m not exaggerating when I say 100% of the men I’ve worked with have explained that when their wives told them that she was leaving, they all said the same thing: ”I love you, but I’m not in love with you.”

If you can understand and decode your wife’s actual love language — and I’m not talking about that love language — by understanding these five signs, she will do anything for you. You’ll be her savior, her only man, and she’ll never want to leave because of how you make her feel.

If you fail to completely miss the mark and not make her consistently fall in love with you by doing these things, she will leave you for another guy. That’s the harsh truth.

Sign #1

That leads us to the first sign that a woman is in love with you: she would do anything for him. You have to recognize that when a woman is in love with you, she’s going above and beyond just to see you. She’s exerting a lot of energy and time to see you. If a girl is no longer showing interest or she’s no longer in love with you, she’ll make excuses not to see you. I used to teach dating to men, and a lot of times, guys would say,

“She keeps on making excuses. I guess I’ll just hit her up until she’s finding time to hang out with me.”

If she wants to see you, you’ll be a priority in her schedule. Even if it isn’t necessarily a “date” context, just seeing you in a neutral setting would be enough for her. When she loves you, she should have a deep craving to be with you regardless of what situation you see her in.

Sign #2

Remember when she was naggy or critical of everything you did? That is a sign she’s in love with you. Women do not share and express vulnerable emotions unless they care about that person. If she’s sharing her problems with you, it’s because she wants to work them out. She feels comfortable expressing what’s inside of her. The opposite of love isn’t hate; it’s indifference. If she’s showing these vulnerable emotions — complaining, sad, fearful, jealous, etc. — even if you don’t like it, it is still a sign that she cares enough to nag. The moment she stops showing you those emotions and shuts inward, she leaves.

Sign #3

When you’re in love with someone, you want to do everything that you can for that person to make them feel loved. Often, this comes out as vocalizing and visualizing plans. Making plans together shows that you see each other in the future. I call this third sign “Projected Future Reality.” Essentially, when a woman shows ideas of wanting to spend time with you in the future, she’s in love with you.

An example of this is a client of mine named Robert. One day, his wife “I’m no longer in love with you,” but then she started planning to go to Bermuda with him. I got a call from Robert the other day where he explained that after wanting a divorce, she designed a week-long vacation for the two of them the next day. He was confused. I told Robert that she wouldn’t make plans if she didn’t love him. A few weeks later, Robert and his wife had ripped up the divorce papers and were off to Bermuda.

Sign #4

This sign is easy to see in friendships but much harder to see in a committed romantic relationship with someone. I call it “Accepting Your Influence.” In conversation, if your wife seeks to understand your perspective on a situation and is somewhat flexible about the outcome, it’s a telltale sign that she’s in love with you. This can come in the shape of her asking questions, being curious, or reflecting on her feelings. Once you know how to look for it, it is simple to see. If she’s in love with you, she’ll have the respect to see your side and consider it.

Sign #5

This one is pretty obvious, but if she’s pursuing physical contact with you, whether that’s a hug, a touch on the arm, or something more intimate, she still feels love for you. When she’s physically flirty, it shows that she feels close enough to you emotionally and physically to touch you. This is a plain sign that she still loves you.

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Derik Fay: The Strategist Who Built Empires Where Others Saw Limits

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1 day ago

June 22, 2025

Michelle Langton

In the ever-changing landscape of entrepreneurship, few names carry the weight of strategic precision like Derik Fay. Behind the scenes of some of the most dynamic, growth-driven companies in America, Fay has become a master at the art of scaling businesses without sacrificing soul.

What makes his journey all the more compelling isn’t just what he’s done — it’s how quietly and deliberately he’s done it. Born in Westerly, Rhode Island, on a cold November day in 1978, Fay didn’t come from connections or capital. He came from resilience. Raised in modest circumstances, he developed a mindset early on that would come to define his success: if a door doesn’t open, build the damn frame yourself.

At 6’1″, Fay’s physical presence is matched only by the magnitude of his vision. Over the past two decades, he’s grown from a solo operator into a force that touches nearly every major sector in American business. He is best known as the founder of 3F Management, a multi-sector venture and private equity firm that acts less like a bank and more like a command center — diagnosing broken business structures, overhauling teams, and rebuilding revenue engines from the inside out.

But 3F is only the beginning. Fay holds active leadership or board roles across a broad range of ventures, including Around the Clock Fitness, SalonPlex, Results Roofing, BIGG Pharma, Tycoon Payments, Eratyc Entertainment, FayMs Films, and even the combat sports disruptor Bare Knuckle Fighting Championships (BKFC). Each of these businesses reflects a different side of his philosophy: high-functioning systems, vertical integration, and zero tolerance for mediocrity.

And while his public persona is often understated, the reach is massive. His online presence alone has generated billions of views, with over 1.4 million followers engaging with his strategic insights, mentorship content, and thought leadership across platforms. He’s not an influencer — he’s an executor with influence.

Yet behind the numbers and headlines is a family man. Since 2021, Fay has shared his life with his partner, Shandra Phillips, whose presence he often credits as grounding his often chaotic, deal-driven world. Together, they raise two daughters, Sophia Elena Fay and Isabella Roslyn Fay — the true north to his professional compass.

Despite his vast portfolio, Fay is not driven by applause. He’s driven by the ripple effect. Every deal, every venture, every mentorship session carries the same intention: to leave people, companies, and communities better than he found them.

He’s also begun exploring a new frontier — film and entertainment. Through FayMs Films and strategic partnerships with entertainment studios, Fay is merging business with storytelling, stepping occasionally into the spotlight as an actor and executive producer. It’s a logical evolution for a man who’s spent his life crafting narratives — only now, some of them play out on screen.

And while many entrepreneurs spend their careers chasing validation, Fay has been repeatedly recognized in major outlets like Forbes, Yahoo Finance, and Maxim, not for buzz but for results. He’s been cited alongside legacy names in global business and continues to operate with the same laser-focus that got him through his first startup, his first failure, and his first million-dollar win.

In a time when founders obsess over being seen, Derik Fay has built something far rarer — he’s become essential. Not just to his companies, but to the evolving definition of what modern leadership looks like: measured, disciplined, people-first, and unapologetically ambitious.

He doesn’t just build businesses.
He builds systems that build people.

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