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5 Signs To Tell If Your Wife Still Loves You

Published

2 years ago

October 9, 2023

How do you know if your wife is still IN love with you? I’m not exaggerating when I say 100% of the men I’ve worked with have explained that when their wives told them that she was leaving, they all said the same thing: ”I love you, but I’m not in love with you.”

If you can understand and decode your wife’s actual love language — and I’m not talking about that love language — by understanding these five signs, she will do anything for you. You’ll be her savior, her only man, and she’ll never want to leave because of how you make her feel.

If you fail to completely miss the mark and not make her consistently fall in love with you by doing these things, she will leave you for another guy. That’s the harsh truth.

Sign #1

That leads us to the first sign that a woman is in love with you: she would do anything for him. You have to recognize that when a woman is in love with you, she’s going above and beyond just to see you. She’s exerting a lot of energy and time to see you. If a girl is no longer showing interest or she’s no longer in love with you, she’ll make excuses not to see you. I used to teach dating to men, and a lot of times, guys would say,

“She keeps on making excuses. I guess I’ll just hit her up until she’s finding time to hang out with me.”

If she wants to see you, you’ll be a priority in her schedule. Even if it isn’t necessarily a “date” context, just seeing you in a neutral setting would be enough for her. When she loves you, she should have a deep craving to be with you regardless of what situation you see her in.

Sign #2

Remember when she was naggy or critical of everything you did? That is a sign she’s in love with you. Women do not share and express vulnerable emotions unless they care about that person. If she’s sharing her problems with you, it’s because she wants to work them out. She feels comfortable expressing what’s inside of her. The opposite of love isn’t hate; it’s indifference. If she’s showing these vulnerable emotions — complaining, sad, fearful, jealous, etc. — even if you don’t like it, it is still a sign that she cares enough to nag. The moment she stops showing you those emotions and shuts inward, she leaves.

Sign #3

When you’re in love with someone, you want to do everything that you can for that person to make them feel loved. Often, this comes out as vocalizing and visualizing plans. Making plans together shows that you see each other in the future. I call this third sign “Projected Future Reality.” Essentially, when a woman shows ideas of wanting to spend time with you in the future, she’s in love with you.

An example of this is a client of mine named Robert. One day, his wife “I’m no longer in love with you,” but then she started planning to go to Bermuda with him. I got a call from Robert the other day where he explained that after wanting a divorce, she designed a week-long vacation for the two of them the next day. He was confused. I told Robert that she wouldn’t make plans if she didn’t love him. A few weeks later, Robert and his wife had ripped up the divorce papers and were off to Bermuda.

Sign #4

This sign is easy to see in friendships but much harder to see in a committed romantic relationship with someone. I call it “Accepting Your Influence.” In conversation, if your wife seeks to understand your perspective on a situation and is somewhat flexible about the outcome, it’s a telltale sign that she’s in love with you. This can come in the shape of her asking questions, being curious, or reflecting on her feelings. Once you know how to look for it, it is simple to see. If she’s in love with you, she’ll have the respect to see your side and consider it.

Sign #5

This one is pretty obvious, but if she’s pursuing physical contact with you, whether that’s a hug, a touch on the arm, or something more intimate, she still feels love for you. When she’s physically flirty, it shows that she feels close enough to you emotionally and physically to touch you. This is a plain sign that she still loves you.

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Why Classical Dance Is Thriving on Instagram

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9 hours ago

April 28, 2025

Michelle Langton

For centuries, classical dance forms like Bharatanatyam and Kathak have been treasured for their elegance, complexity, and storytelling prowess. But in recent years, these age-old traditions have found an unlikely stage: Instagram. From intricate mudras to rhythmic footwork, young dancers are captivating audiences worldwide, all in the span of a 60-second reel.

So, what’s fueling this revival of classical dance on a platform known for trends, filters, and viral challenges?

Instagram, with its visual-first format, has become an ideal space for artists to share their craft. Classical dance, rich in visual storytelling, translates beautifully into bite-sized performances that are accessible and engaging for modern audiences.

“Reels are short enough to grab attention but long enough to convey the essence of a classical piece,” says one of Spardha’s dance teachers, actively creating dance videos for the Instagram page of Spardha School of Music and Dance, an online platform for performing arts education. “You don’t need an elaborate stage or hours of performance; a simple backdrop and good lighting can bring your art to life.”

On Instagram, young dancers bring a fresh approach to traditional art. They skillfully blend classical compositions with trending audio tracks, often choreographing pieces that resonate with younger audiences.

These videos show how classical dance can be relevant in today’s world as young artists reinterpret popular songs in classical style. Such performances respect the tradition, make it accessible to a larger audience by making classical dance relatable.

Social media has also given classical dancers something they’ve never had before: a global audience. Platforms like Instagram allow Indian artists to reach audiences in the U.S., Europe, and beyond, fostering cultural exchange and appreciation.

And the feedback loop is immediate. Unlike traditional performances, which are confined to auditoriums and limited audiences, Instagram reels receive likes, comments, and shares in real time, creating a sense of community and encouraging more engagement.

The rise of online platforms for learning music and dance like Spardha School of Music and Dance has further fueled this trend. Spardha provides structured lessons in classical dance forms like Bharatnatyam and Kathak, and even Bollywood, making them accessible to young learners regardless of their location.

“Many of our students have taken what they’ve learned and showcased it online,” says a representative from Spardha. “It’s incredible to see them not just learn the art but also innovate and present it in ways that inspire others.”

By offering online classes, Spardha ensures that classical dance is no longer restricted to physical studios, enabling dancers to connect with their culture through dance no matter where they are in the world.

The success of classical dance on Instagram lies in its ability to blend heritage with modernity. The younger generation, armed with smartphones and a passion for preserving their roots, is making classical dance both aspirational and accessible.

Dance has always been about expression, and Instagram is just a new way of reaching people.