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Essential Questions to Discuss Before a Catholic Wedding
Preparing for marriage is one of the most meaningful journeys a couple can undertake. For those planning a Catholic wedding, it’s not just about the day itself—it’s about laying the foundation for a lifelong union grounded in faith, commitment, and mutual understanding. Before walking down the aisle, couples are encouraged to explore the deeper aspects of their relationship, values, and shared future. Whether you’re newly engaged or beginning the process of Catholic marriage, these key questions can help guide honest and faith-centred conversations.
What Does Marriage Mean to Each of Us?
While love and companionship are central, Catholic marriage also represents a sacred covenant—an unbreakable bond reflecting God’s love. Discuss what marriage means to each of you spiritually, emotionally, and practically. This helps ensure both partners enter the sacrament with shared understanding and respect for its sacredness.
How Do We Plan to Nurture Our Faith Together?
Faith forms the core of a Catholic marriage. Talk about how you’ll live your faith as a couple—through prayer, attending Mass, and involvement in your parish community. Consider how you’ll support each other’s spiritual growth, especially during life’s challenges, and how faith will guide your family’s decisions.
How Will We Handle Finances and Responsibilities?
Money can often be a source of tension in marriage. It’s important to be open about spending habits, financial goals, and expectations. Discuss whether you’ll share bank accounts, how you’ll handle debts, and how decisions about savings or investments will be made. Transparency builds trust and prevents misunderstandings later on.
What Are Our Expectations Around Children and Family Life?
The Church views openness to life as a vital part of Catholic marriage. Talk about your hopes regarding children—how many you’d like to have, your views on parenting, and how you plan to integrate faith into family life. This includes conversations about education, family traditions, and the values you hope to instil in your future children.
How Will We Approach Conflict and Forgiveness?
Every marriage faces disagreements, but the key lies in how couples handle them. Discuss your communication styles and how you each approach conflict. The Church teaches that forgiveness is central to a healthy marriage, reflecting Christ’s unconditional love. Practising patience, humility, and empathy can strengthen your relationship through both good times and hard ones.
How Do We Intend to Grow Together in the Years Ahead?
Marriage is a lifelong journey, not a one-time event. Think about how you’ll continue to grow as individuals and as a couple. Will you attend retreats, participate in community service, or set aside time for regular check-ins? Shared goals and continued faith formation can keep your relationship vibrant and spiritually aligned.
Preparing for a Catholic wedding involves more than choosing readings or flowers—it’s about preparing your hearts for a lifelong partnership rooted in faith and love
Open, honest discussions about these essential questions can help you both build a solid foundation for a meaningful and lasting marriage. If you’re beginning your journey toward a Catholic wedding, explore more about the beauty and commitment of Catholic marriage through your local parish or diocesan resources.
Lifestyle
When Seasons Shift: Dr. Leeshe Grimes on Grief, Loneliness, and Finding Light Again
Some emotional storms arrive without warning. A sudden change in weather, a holiday approaching, or even a bright sunny day can stir feelings that don’t match the world outside. For many people, the hardest seasons are not defined by temperature; they are defined by what’s happening inside, where grief and loneliness often move quietly.
This is the emotional terrain where Dr. Leeshe Grimes has spent her career doing some of her most meaningful work. As a psychotherapist, registered play therapist, retired U.S. Army combat veteran, and founder of Elevated Minds in the DMV area, she understands how deeply seasonal shifts and unresolved grief can affect people. Her upcoming books explore this very space, guiding readers through the emotional weight that can appear during different times of the year.
What sets Dr. Grimes apart is her ability to see clearly what many people overlook. Seasonal depression, for example, is usually tied to winter months. But she often sees it appear during warm, bright seasons, the times when the world seems happiest. For someone already grieving or feeling disconnected, watching others travel, celebrate, or gather can create its own kind of heaviness. Sunshine doesn’t always lift the mood; sometimes it highlights what feels missing.
The same misunderstanding surrounds grief. Society often treats it as a short-term experience with predictable phases and a clean ending. But in her practice, Dr. Grimes sees how grief keeps evolving. It doesn’t disappear on a timeline. It weaves itself into routines, memories, and milestones. People learn to carry it differently, but they rarely leave it behind completely. And that’s not failure, it’s human.
Her approach to mental health centers on truth rather than pressure. She encourages clients to acknowledge the emotions they try to hide: sadness that lingers longer than expected, moments of joy that feel out of place, and the waves of loneliness that return even when life seems stable. Instead of pushing for quick recovery, she focuses on helping people understand how emotions shift and how to care for themselves through those changes.
Much of her insight comes from her military years, where she witnessed the emotional toll of loss, transition, and constant survival. She saw how people continued functioning while carrying pain that had nowhere to go. That experience shaped her belief that healing requires space, space to feel, to speak, and to move through emotions without judgment.
In her clinical work today at Elevated Minds, she encourages people to build small, steady habits that anchor them during difficult seasons. Journaling helps them recognize patterns and name what feels heavy. Community support breaks the cycle of isolation. Therapy creates a place where emotions don’t have to be minimized or explained away. And intentional routines, daily sunlight, mindful breaks, and calm evenings help rebuild emotional balance.
Her upcoming books expand on these ideas, offering practical guidance for navigating both grief and seasonal depression. She focuses on helping readers understand that healing is not about escaping pain. It’s about learning how to live with it in a healthier way, honoring memories, acknowledging loneliness, and still allowing room for moments of light.
What makes Dr. Leeshe Grimes a compelling voice in mental health is her ability to bring language to experiences that many struggle to explain. She reminds people that emotional seasons don’t always match the weather and that there is no single path through grief. But within those shifts, she believes there is always a way forward.
The seasons will continue to change. And with the right tools, compassion, and support, people can change with them, finding steadiness, softness, and light again, one step at a time.
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