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Rafy: A Poet of Substantial Thought, Wisdom and Strength

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Rafy is an example of some of the finest poets to emerge on the world’s literary stage today. This young poet has garnered himself a loyal following due to his ability to weave an intricate, yet simple tapestry of words which easily convey their meanings to the everyday reader. Rafy refers to himself as a ‘Proud Pakistani’, and rightly so. Pakistan is a country rich with a varied literary history. Indeed, poets such as Allama Muhammad Iqbal, Meer Taqi Meer, and Hafeez Jullundhri have created some of the most treasured poetry in the world today and called Pakistan their home.

Continuing the tradition of proud, Pakistani poets, Rafy’s work often centers on the mystical relationship of love between two individuals. Interestingly enough, Rafy is able to accomplish this feat by dwelling on the simplicity of the emotion being felt at the moment, rather than dwelling on the cliche’d drama as so many other poets want to do. His brief, brisk and at times, haunting poems often relate the tale of loves entanglements, without over burdening the reader. Indeed, Rafy’s poetry encompasses a breath of fresh air, as he continually and consistently immerses us in a world of gentle words, backed by strong emotion.

At times, his poems appear to be tied together with a subtle, and gentle thread, while each maintaining its individuality and uniqueness. Many of his selections concern the affairs of the heart, including its frustrations, joys and duality. His poem, for instance, “For You”, reflects on the poet’s interpretation of the contrary path love sometimes takes, likening it to a battle within one’s soul. For a short time, Rafy allows us into his own, aesthetic, creative inner sanctum, with each new poem telling us a bit more of how he sees the world around him, and his reaction to it. A keen observer of life, love and its tribulations, Rafy’s style has earned him a steadfast, loyal fan base, and it is with great pleasure and anticipation that followers of Rafy’s poetry continue to await his upcoming works.

Here are some of his poems:

You Are at Loss:

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Far but Close:

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Everything:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BtyMcehnl3O/

For more you can visit him on Instagram: @rafyrohaan

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When Seasons Shift: Dr. Leeshe Grimes on Grief, Loneliness, and Finding Light Again

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Some emotional storms arrive without warning. A sudden change in weather, a holiday approaching, or even a bright sunny day can stir feelings that don’t match the world outside. For many people, the hardest seasons are not defined by temperature; they are defined by what’s happening inside, where grief and loneliness often move quietly.

This is the emotional terrain where Dr. Leeshe Grimes has spent her career doing some of her most meaningful work. As a psychotherapist, registered play therapist, retired U.S. Army combat veteran, and founder of Elevated Minds in the DMV area, she understands how deeply seasonal shifts and unresolved grief can affect people. Her upcoming books explore this very space, guiding readers through the emotional weight that can appear during different times of the year.

What sets Dr. Grimes apart is her ability to see clearly what many people overlook. Seasonal depression, for example, is usually tied to winter months. But she often sees it appear during warm, bright seasons, the times when the world seems happiest. For someone already grieving or feeling disconnected, watching others travel, celebrate, or gather can create its own kind of heaviness. Sunshine doesn’t always lift the mood; sometimes it highlights what feels missing.

The same misunderstanding surrounds grief. Society often treats it as a short-term experience with predictable phases and a clean ending. But in her practice, Dr. Grimes sees how grief keeps evolving. It doesn’t disappear on a timeline. It weaves itself into routines, memories, and milestones. People learn to carry it differently, but they rarely leave it behind completely. And that’s not failure, it’s human.

Her approach to mental health centers on truth rather than pressure. She encourages clients to acknowledge the emotions they try to hide: sadness that lingers longer than expected, moments of joy that feel out of place, and the waves of loneliness that return even when life seems stable. Instead of pushing for quick recovery, she focuses on helping people understand how emotions shift and how to care for themselves through those changes.

Much of her insight comes from her military years, where she witnessed the emotional toll of loss, transition, and constant survival. She saw how people continued functioning while carrying pain that had nowhere to go. That experience shaped her belief that healing requires space, space to feel, to speak, and to move through emotions without judgment.

In her clinical work today at Elevated Minds, she encourages people to build small, steady habits that anchor them during difficult seasons. Journaling helps them recognize patterns and name what feels heavy. Community support breaks the cycle of isolation. Therapy creates a place where emotions don’t have to be minimized or explained away. And intentional routines, daily sunlight, mindful breaks, and calm evenings help rebuild emotional balance.

Her upcoming books expand on these ideas, offering practical guidance for navigating both grief and seasonal depression. She focuses on helping readers understand that healing is not about escaping pain. It’s about learning how to live with it in a healthier way, honoring memories, acknowledging loneliness, and still allowing room for moments of light.

What makes Dr. Leeshe Grimes a compelling voice in mental health is her ability to bring language to experiences that many struggle to explain. She reminds people that emotional seasons don’t always match the weather and that there is no single path through grief. But within those shifts, she believes there is always a way forward.

The seasons will continue to change. And with the right tools, compassion, and support, people can change with them, finding steadiness, softness, and light again, one step at a time.

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