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5 Ways to Make the Moving Process Less Stressful for New Care Home Residents

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Moving to a care home from your own home can be stressful and scary for new care home residents. We are here to let you know five ways you can make the moving process less stressful for your friend or family member.

1. Respect Them

Talk to the person about how they are feeling. Lay it out in the open if they are worried and be open to talking about the issues and going over them as much as possible. Be aware of their feelings and think about the change from their perspective.

2. Give it Time

Wherever possible, then build up towards the move in advance, take them to see a few care homes, and talk about it with them. Get them interacting with residents at public meets and take them on a trip with the other residents if you can. If it seems too much too soon, consider getting home help for a while first. Care homes should be used for the residents’ best interest. If they are ok at home, often home help can be cheaper than a care home move so maybe leave it a while before they have to go.

3. Decorate their New Room

Often care homes in Chingford will let residents decorate their rooms. Take special furniture, clothes, books, and ornaments to their new room. Get them a few gifts that they will enjoy and make the process feel special. Buy fruit and chocolates and even wine to help them feel like it is a new home and not somewhere they are being forced to go. Be open and honest about the situation.

4. Befriend the Staff and Residents

Go over to the care home and talk to everyone, be the life and soul and hand out chocolates and cake. If everyone loves you, it will mean your relative feels excited and popular when they come to the place. It is nice if people talk and know each other, make it feel like a community.

5. Visit

When your relative has moved, make sure you schedule in visits. Do what you will be able to keep up with. So many people visit every day in the first month and then not at all as it gets too much. Be kind to yourself and think about it from both perspectives. It might be better if you visited once a week or twice a month as long as you keep it up.

If they are well enough, take your relative out in the car and go shopping or to a local park once a week. If that isn’t possible, then go for a walk around the gardens of the home and make sure they are getting booked into the organized trips and getting involved with the goings-on. If they aren’t, then talk to them and suggest you do it together, help them fit in, and get to know the other residents. Friendships are so important at every stage of life.

Be positive and happy about the change as well as understanding. Promote excitement about what you can and be honest about the challenges and there for them when they need you. Be real and kind, and don’t burn yourself out trying to be a superhero. Give yourself time to plan activities and days out that you can do together and make the transition as pain-free as possible.

Michelle has been a part of the journey ever since Bigtime Daily started. As a strong learner and passionate writer, she contributes her editing skills for the news agency. She also jots down intellectual pieces from categories such as science and health.

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When Seasons Shift: Dr. Leeshe Grimes on Grief, Loneliness, and Finding Light Again

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Some emotional storms arrive without warning. A sudden change in weather, a holiday approaching, or even a bright sunny day can stir feelings that don’t match the world outside. For many people, the hardest seasons are not defined by temperature; they are defined by what’s happening inside, where grief and loneliness often move quietly.

This is the emotional terrain where Dr. Leeshe Grimes has spent her career doing some of her most meaningful work. As a psychotherapist, registered play therapist, retired U.S. Army combat veteran, and founder of Elevated Minds in the DMV area, she understands how deeply seasonal shifts and unresolved grief can affect people. Her upcoming books explore this very space, guiding readers through the emotional weight that can appear during different times of the year.

What sets Dr. Grimes apart is her ability to see clearly what many people overlook. Seasonal depression, for example, is usually tied to winter months. But she often sees it appear during warm, bright seasons, the times when the world seems happiest. For someone already grieving or feeling disconnected, watching others travel, celebrate, or gather can create its own kind of heaviness. Sunshine doesn’t always lift the mood; sometimes it highlights what feels missing.

The same misunderstanding surrounds grief. Society often treats it as a short-term experience with predictable phases and a clean ending. But in her practice, Dr. Grimes sees how grief keeps evolving. It doesn’t disappear on a timeline. It weaves itself into routines, memories, and milestones. People learn to carry it differently, but they rarely leave it behind completely. And that’s not failure, it’s human.

Her approach to mental health centers on truth rather than pressure. She encourages clients to acknowledge the emotions they try to hide: sadness that lingers longer than expected, moments of joy that feel out of place, and the waves of loneliness that return even when life seems stable. Instead of pushing for quick recovery, she focuses on helping people understand how emotions shift and how to care for themselves through those changes.

Much of her insight comes from her military years, where she witnessed the emotional toll of loss, transition, and constant survival. She saw how people continued functioning while carrying pain that had nowhere to go. That experience shaped her belief that healing requires space, space to feel, to speak, and to move through emotions without judgment.

In her clinical work today at Elevated Minds, she encourages people to build small, steady habits that anchor them during difficult seasons. Journaling helps them recognize patterns and name what feels heavy. Community support breaks the cycle of isolation. Therapy creates a place where emotions don’t have to be minimized or explained away. And intentional routines, daily sunlight, mindful breaks, and calm evenings help rebuild emotional balance.

Her upcoming books expand on these ideas, offering practical guidance for navigating both grief and seasonal depression. She focuses on helping readers understand that healing is not about escaping pain. It’s about learning how to live with it in a healthier way, honoring memories, acknowledging loneliness, and still allowing room for moments of light.

What makes Dr. Leeshe Grimes a compelling voice in mental health is her ability to bring language to experiences that many struggle to explain. She reminds people that emotional seasons don’t always match the weather and that there is no single path through grief. But within those shifts, she believes there is always a way forward.

The seasons will continue to change. And with the right tools, compassion, and support, people can change with them, finding steadiness, softness, and light again, one step at a time.

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