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Instant Confidence Boosters

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Issues of self-confidence are another kind of pandemic spreading around the world these days. In the highly filtered and airbrushed online world of Instagram and other social media, the pressure to feel beautiful, confident, successful and at one’s best all the time is rapidly increasing to unbearable and unsustainable levels.

What people need in their lives are some quick and simple ways to give themselves a confidence boost. Such a boost can be just the momentum one needs to escape the vicious cycle of envy that they feel when looking at Insta all day long.

1. Get Yourself Tanned

If you have very fair skin and are feeling self-conscious about being pale or lacking in a “healthy colour,” then why not purchase self tanning serum online and change that overnight? It’s absolutely possible to do! Tanning serums, tanning butter and lotions are of a much higher order of quality than they were years ago, and can provide a magnificent confidence-boosting glow. There’s no need to put yourself through the rigmarole of tanning beds of endless days by the pool or on the beach trying to balance a tanning effect with efforts not to burn oneself anymore.

2. Get a New Hair-Do

The transformative power of a new hairstyle is something that still manages to surprise so many people. We get so used to seeing each other in familiar hairstyles, that any significant change becomes instantly noticeable, and more often than not in a good way. For your confidence, it’s fantastic as people suddenly see you in a whole new light. With a simple change of the hair, so too can impressions change.

3. Lose (Even a Little) Weight

We did say that we’d list easy confidence boosters, and to be fair losing weight can be a hard thing to do for many people. However, even a small amount of weight-loss brought on by a week or two of eating better and exercising can provide a disproportionately huge amount of confidence in people. In fact, it’s that confidence that can fuel us to move forward and continue the journey to reach a more distant target weight.

4. Get New Clothes

Sometimes we take for granted just how the same we look each day. If it’s not our hairstyle, then it’s the clothes we wear. If we’re always dressing in the same several outfits week on week, then we start to take it for granted. Just as there is with a new hair-do, there’s a transformative power that comes with new clothes. Trying new colours and styles of clothes, or even just buying fresh and new versions of more familiar styles, can show us off in a brand-new light.

5. Change Your Professional Direction

If it’s your job that’s getting you down, then we’re not saying just throw in the towel and quit, but try and make your working life more inspiring and empowering. Take classes and professional development courses that can get you on a new track to great things. However, if leaving one job for another will make you feel instantly more confident and powerful, then go for it. Finding happiness and contentment in what you do for a living is important.

6. Turn Off the Social Media

Finally, if you want a very quick and easy confidence boost, the perfect way to do it is by turning off social media altogether and taking a break from it. You don’t realise just how much of your life is being taken up by these various accounts you keep in your smartphone and on your laptop. They don’t just eat up time, but dictate your emotions and monopolise your attention. Regaining full control of your mind, attention and feelings is perhaps the confidence booster that you really need.

Michelle has been a part of the journey ever since Bigtime Daily started. As a strong learner and passionate writer, she contributes her editing skills for the news agency. She also jots down intellectual pieces from categories such as science and health.

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When Seasons Shift: Dr. Leeshe Grimes on Grief, Loneliness, and Finding Light Again

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Some emotional storms arrive without warning. A sudden change in weather, a holiday approaching, or even a bright sunny day can stir feelings that don’t match the world outside. For many people, the hardest seasons are not defined by temperature; they are defined by what’s happening inside, where grief and loneliness often move quietly.

This is the emotional terrain where Dr. Leeshe Grimes has spent her career doing some of her most meaningful work. As a psychotherapist, registered play therapist, retired U.S. Army combat veteran, and founder of Elevated Minds in the DMV area, she understands how deeply seasonal shifts and unresolved grief can affect people. Her upcoming books explore this very space, guiding readers through the emotional weight that can appear during different times of the year.

What sets Dr. Grimes apart is her ability to see clearly what many people overlook. Seasonal depression, for example, is usually tied to winter months. But she often sees it appear during warm, bright seasons, the times when the world seems happiest. For someone already grieving or feeling disconnected, watching others travel, celebrate, or gather can create its own kind of heaviness. Sunshine doesn’t always lift the mood; sometimes it highlights what feels missing.

The same misunderstanding surrounds grief. Society often treats it as a short-term experience with predictable phases and a clean ending. But in her practice, Dr. Grimes sees how grief keeps evolving. It doesn’t disappear on a timeline. It weaves itself into routines, memories, and milestones. People learn to carry it differently, but they rarely leave it behind completely. And that’s not failure, it’s human.

Her approach to mental health centers on truth rather than pressure. She encourages clients to acknowledge the emotions they try to hide: sadness that lingers longer than expected, moments of joy that feel out of place, and the waves of loneliness that return even when life seems stable. Instead of pushing for quick recovery, she focuses on helping people understand how emotions shift and how to care for themselves through those changes.

Much of her insight comes from her military years, where she witnessed the emotional toll of loss, transition, and constant survival. She saw how people continued functioning while carrying pain that had nowhere to go. That experience shaped her belief that healing requires space, space to feel, to speak, and to move through emotions without judgment.

In her clinical work today at Elevated Minds, she encourages people to build small, steady habits that anchor them during difficult seasons. Journaling helps them recognize patterns and name what feels heavy. Community support breaks the cycle of isolation. Therapy creates a place where emotions don’t have to be minimized or explained away. And intentional routines, daily sunlight, mindful breaks, and calm evenings help rebuild emotional balance.

Her upcoming books expand on these ideas, offering practical guidance for navigating both grief and seasonal depression. She focuses on helping readers understand that healing is not about escaping pain. It’s about learning how to live with it in a healthier way, honoring memories, acknowledging loneliness, and still allowing room for moments of light.

What makes Dr. Leeshe Grimes a compelling voice in mental health is her ability to bring language to experiences that many struggle to explain. She reminds people that emotional seasons don’t always match the weather and that there is no single path through grief. But within those shifts, she believes there is always a way forward.

The seasons will continue to change. And with the right tools, compassion, and support, people can change with them, finding steadiness, softness, and light again, one step at a time.

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