Lifestyle
Tips for Helping Aging Parents Without Taking Over
Parents are often the first people to know when something is wrong with their children. As they age, parents may find that they need help themselves and it’s their children that should be the first to step in and offer support. Your parents have done a lot for you and now, as they age, there’s a lot you can do for them.
Assistance
One way to provide support to your aging parent is by offering practical assistance with tasks such as grocery shopping, cooking, and cleaning. Offer to come around once a day or once every few days to help with the vacuuming and dusting. If you live close by, you could drop meals off every evening and offer to take out the trash. Grocery shopping isn’t always easy for seniors so offer to tag along and help with pushing the cart. It’s these little things that will make a big difference without overstepping when help is not needed.
Emotional Support
When it comes to our aging parents, we want to do everything we can to make them feel comfortable and loved. This may mean being a shoulder to cry on during tough times or simply offering a listening ear. It’s important that we take the time to listen to our parents and understand what they’re going through. Never judge and always try and make your loved one feel appreciated. Getting older is a challenging time so be sensitive and let them know that you’ll always be there.
Give Them Their Independence
We all love being independent and it’s a very sad day when that is taken away from us. Help your parent keep their independence for longer by installing home safety devices that are specifically targeted to this market. Options include a medical alert system, a smoke alarm, door sensors, and a CCTV system. Another option is to install a home elevator that will make getting around much easier. The home elevator costs are relatively low and the installation of an elevator will future-proof their home for years to come. It will also add a tremendous amount of value to the property. All of these changes will help your loved one maintain their freedom for longer. Going into an aged care facility won’t even by an option as they’ll be safe and secure in their own homes and, as an added bonus, you’ll have peace of mind that all is ok too. It’s a win-win.
Help with Bills and Other Expenses
If your mom or dad is struggling to pay the bills, try your best to help them out. There are government schemes like the Supplemental Security Income (SSI) or Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) that offer assistance. These programs can provide a regular monthly payment to help cover rent, groceries, and other necessary household expenses. Another option is to seek out private charities or foundations that offer support to families in need. There are also many organizations that provide grants so be sure to look into the options.
Lifestyle
When Seasons Shift: Dr. Leeshe Grimes on Grief, Loneliness, and Finding Light Again
Some emotional storms arrive without warning. A sudden change in weather, a holiday approaching, or even a bright sunny day can stir feelings that don’t match the world outside. For many people, the hardest seasons are not defined by temperature; they are defined by what’s happening inside, where grief and loneliness often move quietly.
This is the emotional terrain where Dr. Leeshe Grimes has spent her career doing some of her most meaningful work. As a psychotherapist, registered play therapist, retired U.S. Army combat veteran, and founder of Elevated Minds in the DMV area, she understands how deeply seasonal shifts and unresolved grief can affect people. Her upcoming books explore this very space, guiding readers through the emotional weight that can appear during different times of the year.
What sets Dr. Grimes apart is her ability to see clearly what many people overlook. Seasonal depression, for example, is usually tied to winter months. But she often sees it appear during warm, bright seasons, the times when the world seems happiest. For someone already grieving or feeling disconnected, watching others travel, celebrate, or gather can create its own kind of heaviness. Sunshine doesn’t always lift the mood; sometimes it highlights what feels missing.
The same misunderstanding surrounds grief. Society often treats it as a short-term experience with predictable phases and a clean ending. But in her practice, Dr. Grimes sees how grief keeps evolving. It doesn’t disappear on a timeline. It weaves itself into routines, memories, and milestones. People learn to carry it differently, but they rarely leave it behind completely. And that’s not failure, it’s human.
Her approach to mental health centers on truth rather than pressure. She encourages clients to acknowledge the emotions they try to hide: sadness that lingers longer than expected, moments of joy that feel out of place, and the waves of loneliness that return even when life seems stable. Instead of pushing for quick recovery, she focuses on helping people understand how emotions shift and how to care for themselves through those changes.
Much of her insight comes from her military years, where she witnessed the emotional toll of loss, transition, and constant survival. She saw how people continued functioning while carrying pain that had nowhere to go. That experience shaped her belief that healing requires space, space to feel, to speak, and to move through emotions without judgment.
In her clinical work today at Elevated Minds, she encourages people to build small, steady habits that anchor them during difficult seasons. Journaling helps them recognize patterns and name what feels heavy. Community support breaks the cycle of isolation. Therapy creates a place where emotions don’t have to be minimized or explained away. And intentional routines, daily sunlight, mindful breaks, and calm evenings help rebuild emotional balance.
Her upcoming books expand on these ideas, offering practical guidance for navigating both grief and seasonal depression. She focuses on helping readers understand that healing is not about escaping pain. It’s about learning how to live with it in a healthier way, honoring memories, acknowledging loneliness, and still allowing room for moments of light.
What makes Dr. Leeshe Grimes a compelling voice in mental health is her ability to bring language to experiences that many struggle to explain. She reminds people that emotional seasons don’t always match the weather and that there is no single path through grief. But within those shifts, she believes there is always a way forward.
The seasons will continue to change. And with the right tools, compassion, and support, people can change with them, finding steadiness, softness, and light again, one step at a time.
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