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3 Mental Habits To Win Your Wife Back

Have you heard the words:
“It’s over. I’m done. There’s no chance. I am no longer in love with you.”
You made a huge mistake when you heard those words. The error you made is that you believed what she was saying. Don’t get me wrong; almost every single husband makes the same mistake. I get it. You felt devastated when you heard those heartbreaking words. Although it rattled you, luckily, there are three mental habits that you can do to get your wife to regret ever saying them and want you back. You must understand these three things to retain her. These mental habits are inner shifts you make within yourself to get a completely different external result.
You would think some giant betrayal causes wives to leave, move out, see another man, or ask for a divorce. The truth is, most times, it isn’t that at all. Instead, it’s death by a thousand cuts. I call it the emotional tipping scale.
Emotional Tipping Scale
Imagine that there are all the positive emotions on one side of a scale. At the beginning of the relationship, you guys had a lot in this emotional bank. As time continued, every time you were complacent, you didn’t choose her, you didn’t lead, you became emotionally reactive, or you shut down your emotions. Each of these disconnections was another item on the negative side of the scale. This happened until one single event broke the camel’s back.
This emotional Tipping Point is scientifically proven. Studies show that successful and happy marriages that last a long time have four positive emotional experiences to every one negative experience. If there are too many negative experiences, you become the villain in her life instead of the hero. That being said, even too many positive interactions will make her lose respect and leave you.
Context Transference
Mastering context transference will skyrocket your results with your wife on autopilot. I hear so many men say this exact thing,
“I don’t get it. At work, with my employees and colleagues, I’m confident, unreactive, and listen to their emotions. If I could be that way with my wife, my marriage wouldn’t be falling apart.”
For this first tip, you don’t have to learn anything new. You possess all the skills already, and you just have to learn how to apply these skills to your wife.
For example, when I was in college, there would be girls I didn’t care much about. I wasn’t attracted to them, and I was carefree. I was funny, confident, and relaxed; everything I needed to do to get them to like me more. Then, I met this girl. As soon as I met her, I had a huge crush. I romanticized her, put her on a pedestal, and couldn’t think when I was around her. I was frozen stiff, didn’t say a word, didn’t make funny jokes, and didn’t do all the relaxed things I would typically do around women. Because of this, she didn’t see who I was and wasn’t attracted to me. One day, I asked her out and got rejected. I was curious why this happened to me, so I researched it. I found a technique from neuro-linguistic programming and did a visualization exercise where I could remove the anxiety and the fear, shed that layer of insecurity, and become my highest-value self. You need to find total confidence in who you are and then apply that same framework to the situations you’re struggling with while talking to your wife. Having that confidence in yourself is so powerful she’ll swoon over you.
Guided Forgiveness
Many guys think they’ve forgiven their wives, but they haven’t. Frequently, I see that guys have an underlying tone of hesitance that’s still harbored in the tone of their voice. The other day, I was running a group call on the Marriage Mastery Program and talking to the guys about an intense internal topic. What I found for this group was that when the guys were in a safe place talking with other men going through the same thing, they could clearly define what they hadn’t truly forgiven their wives for. They had a small subconscious thought that was taking a toll on their relationship with their wives. The first step is becoming aware of your doubts, but the second is understanding how to change them. It doesn’t matter what communication changes or external changes you make in your relationship. If that voice is still in the back of your head, it’ll find subtle ways to sabotage it all. Forgiveness is the only way to quiet that voice.
I want you to imagine strings on the back of your head pulling you to the past. Every time there is a new fight with her, those strings get pulled, and you’re guided back to the past. When you’re focusing on the past, using past emotions, actions, and thoughts, you will replicate the same scenarios every single time. If you find a way to cut off that string from the past, you can move forward toward the new future with your wife that you want. Forgiveness is your scissors. Your ability to use them is the context transference. The ability to find them is the third mental habit.
Eudemonia Exaltation
Eudemonia means “the condition of human flourishing.” The opposite of that is hedonism, which is immediate pleasure and wanting to avoid pain at all costs.
I want you to imagine that you lost your keys in the dark in your house. You have a date with your wife in 20 minutes, so you’re frantically looking for the keys. You’re scrambling around the dark house when you see a street lamp out the window. You realize there’s light under the streetlamp, so you go into the light and search there. Even though there’s light, why are you searching for the keys outside when you know you lost them inside your house?
This is exactly what most men do, and you probably do the same. How often do you look for answers to saving your marriage outside yourself? Whether it’s you blaming it on your wife’s bipolar tendencies, narcissism, abuse, trauma, her family, or her friends, you’re looking for outside issues to fix an internal problem. When you look for answers to improve your marriage outside of your power, you’re looking for your keys outside when you know you lost them inside. If you change the patterns within yourself, you’ll find the answers to saving your marriage.
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Why Derik Fay Is Becoming a Case Study in Long-Haul Entrepreneurship

Entrepreneurship today is often framed in extremes — overnight exits or public flameouts. But a small cohort of operators is being studied for something far less viral: consistency. Among them, Derik Fay has quietly surfaced as a long-term figure whose name appears frequently across sectors, interviews, and editorial mentions — yet whose personal visibility remains relatively limited.
Fay’s career spans more than 20 years and includes work in private investment, business operations, and emerging entertainment ventures. Though many of his companies are not household names, the volume and duration of his activity have made him a subject of interest among business media outlets and founders who study entrepreneurial longevity over fame.
He was born in Westerly, Rhode Island, in 1978, and while much of his early career remains undocumented publicly, recent profiles including recurring features in Forbes — have chronicled his current portfolio and leadership methods. These accounts often emphasize his pattern of working behind the scenes, embedding within businesses rather than leading from a distance. His style is often described by peers as “operational first, media last.”
Fay has also become recognizable for his consistency in leadership approach: focus on internal systems, low public profile, and long-term strategy over short-term visibility. At 46 years old, his posture in business remains one of longevity rather than disruption a contrast to many of the more heavily publicized entrepreneurs of the post-2010 era.
While Fay has never publicly confirmed his net worth, independent analysis based on documented real estate holdings, corporate exits, and investment activity suggests a conservative floor of $100 million, with several credible indicators placing the figure at well over $250 million. The exact number may remain private but the scale is increasingly difficult to overlook.
He is also involved in creative sectors, including film and media, and maintains a presence on social platforms, though not at the scale or tone of many personal-brand-driven CEOs. He lives with his long-term partner, Shandra Phillips, and is the father of two daughters — both occasionally referenced in interviews, though rarely centered.
While not an outspoken figure, Fay’s work continues to gain media attention. The reason may lie in the contrast he presents: in a climate of rapid rises and equally rapid burnout, his profile reflects something less dramatic but increasingly valuable — steadiness.
There are no viral speeches. No Twitter threads drawing blueprints. Just a track record that’s building its own momentum over time.
Whether that style becomes the norm for the next wave of founders is unknown. But it does offer something more enduring than buzz: a model of entrepreneurship where attention isn’t the currency — results are.
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