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Plan Now for Your Senior Lifestyle

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In the past, aging meant retiring from your job, slowing down and perhaps spending your remaining days playing with your grandchildren. Now aging looks very different, and many people may continue working because they choose to, or go on to lead active lives even in retirement, traveling, volunteering and participating in senior sporting events. If you envision this for yourself, there are things you can do now to lay the groundwork.

Save for Retirement

You should save as much as you can toward retirement. This should include maxing out your workplace retirement fund, and you may want to look into other investments as well. Even if you plan to continue working into your 70s, you don’t want to have to do so as a matter of financial necessity. Thinking now about the kind of lifestyle you plan to lead as you get older will help you better plan how much money you will need.

Install a Home Elevator

It might sound like a big step, and with any luck you’ll be sprinting up steps well into old age. However, it is not unusual for even healthy seniors to struggle with knee problems or other mobility issues, even if only temporarily. Having an elevator can help ensure your independence and make it easier to manage if you have a short- or long-term period of needing to use a wheelchair, crutches or a cane to get around. The process of installing residential elevators that improve your lifestyle only takes a day, and it can be done in many different types of homes.

Stay Mentally and Physically Active

If you don’t want to slow down, you don’t have to. Staying both mentally and physically engaged will help you as you age. This could be the chance to take classes, pursue hobbies or nurture talents you never had time for when you were working and raising a family. Grandma Moses did not even begin painting until she was in her 70s, and there are still debut novelists who are 60 and older. Some people might feel negatively about aging, but keep in mind that while you might not have the reflexes or the physical strength that you did in your youth, other qualities replace this, including a lifetime of valuable experience and a mature understanding of the world.

Make Connections

Not everyone is an extrovert, but humans are social animals, and having at least a few social connections is important, including as you age. Ideally, you can make these connections with people of different ages. Get involved in your community and activities that you love. This can be particularly helpful once you retire since some people may feel lost and lose their sense of belonging when they are not going to work every day. If you largely prefer the company of animals or plants to people, check out opportunities at your local dog or cat rescue, which often need people who can foster pets for adoption, or contact your local botanical garden to see if they need volunteers.

Michelle has been a part of the journey ever since Bigtime Daily started. As a strong learner and passionate writer, she contributes her editing skills for the news agency. She also jots down intellectual pieces from categories such as science and health.

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When Seasons Shift: Dr. Leeshe Grimes on Grief, Loneliness, and Finding Light Again

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Some emotional storms arrive without warning. A sudden change in weather, a holiday approaching, or even a bright sunny day can stir feelings that don’t match the world outside. For many people, the hardest seasons are not defined by temperature; they are defined by what’s happening inside, where grief and loneliness often move quietly.

This is the emotional terrain where Dr. Leeshe Grimes has spent her career doing some of her most meaningful work. As a psychotherapist, registered play therapist, retired U.S. Army combat veteran, and founder of Elevated Minds in the DMV area, she understands how deeply seasonal shifts and unresolved grief can affect people. Her upcoming books explore this very space, guiding readers through the emotional weight that can appear during different times of the year.

What sets Dr. Grimes apart is her ability to see clearly what many people overlook. Seasonal depression, for example, is usually tied to winter months. But she often sees it appear during warm, bright seasons, the times when the world seems happiest. For someone already grieving or feeling disconnected, watching others travel, celebrate, or gather can create its own kind of heaviness. Sunshine doesn’t always lift the mood; sometimes it highlights what feels missing.

The same misunderstanding surrounds grief. Society often treats it as a short-term experience with predictable phases and a clean ending. But in her practice, Dr. Grimes sees how grief keeps evolving. It doesn’t disappear on a timeline. It weaves itself into routines, memories, and milestones. People learn to carry it differently, but they rarely leave it behind completely. And that’s not failure, it’s human.

Her approach to mental health centers on truth rather than pressure. She encourages clients to acknowledge the emotions they try to hide: sadness that lingers longer than expected, moments of joy that feel out of place, and the waves of loneliness that return even when life seems stable. Instead of pushing for quick recovery, she focuses on helping people understand how emotions shift and how to care for themselves through those changes.

Much of her insight comes from her military years, where she witnessed the emotional toll of loss, transition, and constant survival. She saw how people continued functioning while carrying pain that had nowhere to go. That experience shaped her belief that healing requires space, space to feel, to speak, and to move through emotions without judgment.

In her clinical work today at Elevated Minds, she encourages people to build small, steady habits that anchor them during difficult seasons. Journaling helps them recognize patterns and name what feels heavy. Community support breaks the cycle of isolation. Therapy creates a place where emotions don’t have to be minimized or explained away. And intentional routines, daily sunlight, mindful breaks, and calm evenings help rebuild emotional balance.

Her upcoming books expand on these ideas, offering practical guidance for navigating both grief and seasonal depression. She focuses on helping readers understand that healing is not about escaping pain. It’s about learning how to live with it in a healthier way, honoring memories, acknowledging loneliness, and still allowing room for moments of light.

What makes Dr. Leeshe Grimes a compelling voice in mental health is her ability to bring language to experiences that many struggle to explain. She reminds people that emotional seasons don’t always match the weather and that there is no single path through grief. But within those shifts, she believes there is always a way forward.

The seasons will continue to change. And with the right tools, compassion, and support, people can change with them, finding steadiness, softness, and light again, one step at a time.

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